Wednesday, October 11, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Pink

It's Wednesday--Why Wear Pink?

Last we we talked about October being Domestic Violence Awareness Month, but as you know, it is also Breast Cancer Awareness Month.  To refresh your memory, we're giving you a few important facts about breast cancer, and encouraging you to show your support and solidarity in finding a cure.  

Share these facts with those you love, and always make annual (at minimum) appointments with your doctor a priority.  Knowing and acting is the healthiest thing you can do.  No fear!


1.  Breast cancer is a disease in which malignant (cancer) cells form in the tissues of the breast. It affects millions of women, and thankfully gets the needed attention to fight its surge.  

2.  Regular doctor visits and mammograms for women over the age of 40 are critical in breast health.  If you are at risk for breast cancer, because of a history of the condition in your family, you should have mammograms sooner for early detection.  Many insurance companies have improved coverage for breast health, and social service centers are helping out as well.  Check our local area for more.  

3. Each year it is estimated that nearly 200,000 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer and more than 40,000 will die.  We must get these numbers lower.  


4. Breast cancer impacts us all. Approximately 1,700 men ill also be diagnosed with breast cancer and 450 will die each year.  This isn't just about the ladies, gents.  


We hope we're inspiring you to show your awareness (backed by action) all month long.  Like the last couple years, we're wearing pink on Wednesdays to show support for breast cancer awareness.  To recognize domestic violence awareness, we're wearing purple on Thursdays!  

Fashion for a cause--It's the B.A.F.F.L.E.D. way! 

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#WearPinkWednesdaysBCA



*Don't forget about October being Domestic Violence Awareness Month, too!

#WearPurpleThursdaysDVA

Join is as we raise awareness this month, and always.  Awareness and action don't end when the month does.    

Monday, October 9, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Fashion Law

France Continues Lead in Positive Body Imaging--

In late 2015, France took a stand against negative body images continuing to rule the fashion industry. The nation began requiring fashion models to provide a doctor's approval, certifying they were healthy enough to walk the runway. As a cornerstone in the age old fashion industry, France's moves are always seen with deference.  The U.S. has made attempts to address child labor laws, but are still working on achieving something similar for adults.  The American Journal of Public Health praised what France did in '15.  


This time, France is requiring publishers and photographers to include a warning label, "Photographie Retouchee'", on any picture with retouched or photoshopped models. Major fines will be assessed if the warning is not included.  The hook is to warn consumers when they are seeing an image of a model altered to look skinnier than they actually are---further "skinny praising", less natural body praising in general.  

The law was first filed in 2009, but hasn't come to fruition until now.  Over the years, there's been praise and opposition for it.  Some see it as necessary to reversing the many years of trends in skinny overruling all other sizes.  Others see it as unnecessary--"we know ads are made to sell dreams and make-believe".  

How do you think this will work?  Is it necessary?  Should other countries require it, too?


This photo shows a body chain made by B.A.F.F.L.E.D. fave, Ready to Stare - a body positive brand.  



Thursday, October 5, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Purple

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month--


As we step into the 4th quarter of 2017, we also recognize Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Sharing critical information about domestic violence is critical, so we all can continue pushing forward toward a remedy.  You've seen some of these facts before, but they are always relevant.

Domestic violence is unfortunately more common than we realize, and actually spurred by other issues being dealt with, mostly with abusers.  To address this problem, we must educate and spread the word. 


Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) spurred from the "Day of Unity" in October 1981, by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence. The vision was to connect advocates across the country, working to end violence against women and their children. Like many other causes, such a short time to promote awareness was not long enough, so all of October is now dedicated to this cause.


Here's what you should know:

1. Domestic violence sees no race, color, ethnic background, or economic status.  It affects people in all walks of life.  Men are also impacted, not just women and children.  It's also more than just physical abuse.  Emotional abuse counts, too.  

2. Domestic violence is cyclical.  Although many who are abused feel pain and resent their abusers, they often go on to repeat the behavior.  For children, it is often the only way they know.  Without education and therapy to deal with the circumstance, the problem can perpetuate.

3. Due to lack of resources, the number of survivors to whom local Coalitions Against Domestic Violence (CADV) have provided shelter has decreased by 20%, while the number of victims turned away has increased by 16% over the last four years.  In the last year alone CADVs saw a drastic 12% drop in the number survivors who obtained safe, emergency shelter. Despite this fact, survivors and their children received over 522,000 hours of service last year alone. 

4. Help is available at all times.  Victims, and even offenders who know they need help, may not know where to turn.  To get things rolling, anyone can call the National Domestic Violence Helpline at 1-800-799-SAFE.  

5.  Safety Plans help.  The hotline is an amazing tool, but creating safety plans takes things a step further.  The plan will help victims route their escape from pain and chart their journey to a better life.  Plans can include starting a separate savings account, thinking of exit routes from the home, avoiding arguments where weapons are readily accessible, i.e. the kitchen, and having someone available at all times to pick you up or be home when you need them.  For more ideas, click here.

6. There's always a hope for change.  No matter how tough the situation appears; for you or someone you're witnessing, various outlets are available to stop the cycle and give families strength. 

We all have to take on a role in resolutions for domestic violence--speaking out, educating, encouraging others to do the same, and seeking help where necessary.  

*If you are experiencing or sensing signs---say or do something.  Don't wait. With so many tough circumstances to face these days, violence among loved ones is never one we need.  Let's turn touch domestic spaces into haves for love, support and encouragement.  

***Don't forget about our colors campaign this month!

#WearPurpleThursdaysDVA

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Wednesday, September 27, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Dines

Meals You Can Believe In - Wine That Tells a Story...

Everyone loves good cooking, and largely inspired by southern roots, it's hard to beat cooking (or restaurants) in Chicago.  Today, we're putting you onto fab partnership between Chef Monica J of Tasteful Manners and Love Cork Screw for a food and wine cookbook.  The book is a must-have, and essential to Sommelier-Foodies' guide to good eating.  
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Check it out!

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Chef and wine enthusiast team up to create cookbook that pairs your palate with your pinot
September 20th, 2017 – CHICAGO – Bon Appetit magazine recently named Chicago the best restaurant city of the year, but there are chefs outside of brick and mortar buildings making moves as well. Chef Monica J of Tasteful Manners NFP has teamed up with her friend and vintner/owner of Love Cork Screw wine company, Chrishon Lampley, to create a cookbook that answers the always pertinent question: What wine should I pair with this dish? The book, “Your Guide to Tasteful Manners with Love Cork Screw” was just released on September 20th and is available for purchase at www.lovecorkscrew.com.
Chef Monica J touts her meals to be easy, healthy and most importantly delicious and puts her food where her mouth is, so to speak. The chef has lost thirty-eight pounds within the last year eating her own culinary creations. Chef Monica J also has had the pleasure of cooking for a certain NBA MVP that used to reside in Chicago and now counts Cook County State’s Attorney Kim Foxx as one of her meal plan prep customers.

“It is imperative that the food that I cook not only taste wonderful, but makes you feel wonderful as well,” Chef Monica J said. “I do not ask anyone else to eat anything that I am not eating, and I believe in my recipes and their results.”
Chrishon Lampley echoes Chef Monica J’s sentiments. “When I am out and about at events and such, people always ask me which one of my wines would I pair with a particular dish,” Chrishon said. “I thought that this book would be a great way to showcase my choices.”
The book pairs not only the five varietals Love Cork Screw offers but also Chrishon's choice picks from other wine companies. This is rare if not unheard of that a private wine label and a chef do a cookbook together, which adds to the cool factor of the project.

Chef Monica J also takes her healthy bites to the classroom where she teaches Chicago Public School students and their families how to make better choices. In her spare time, Chef Monica J mentors students in the popular “Cooking Up Change” competition where high school Chicago Public School students compete to have the healthiest and best-tasting recipes added to their school lunch menu.
“I am extremely passionate about bringing my meals to anyone who wants them or feels that they could benefit from them,” Chef Monica J said. “Nothing makes me light up more than seeing someone enjoy something that I’ve created.”

Instagram: @chefmonicaj
Twitter: @tastefulmanners

Your Guide to Tasteful Manners with Love Cork Screw is available for purchase at: www.lovecorkscrew.com
 
​For PR inquiries, contact: Traci Daniels 312-351-9670



Friday, September 8, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Fashion Fix

Workplace Style with an Expert--

Fashion Group International of Chicago is hosting a great event next week on fashion in the workplace.  Yes, you can be fashionable in the workplace.  Don't succumb to boring!  With image and branding strategist Aaja Corrine sharing tips and tricks, attendants will also experience the fabulous showroom of Style Room 326.

Don't miss this!!

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#SignatureIsTheNewBlack

While professional dress is always a must for the workplace, it never has to be boring! Being a leader in your industry is measured by both being the expert, but also by looking the part.

Aaja Corinne Magee is an Image and Personal Branding Strategist, who helps high-potential leaders to create game-changing, personal brands by teaching them how to package and platform their purpose. She will teach attendees how to develop their own signature style that compliments their personal brand, without compromising professionalism.

"Signature style begins with deciding how you want to be perceived." -Aaja Corinne
Click Here To Become An FGI Chicago Member

Saturday, September 2, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Empowers

The Girlboss Makes Her Next Move--

After launching a successful...and sometimes lawsuit-laden apparel brand, Nasty Gal creator Sophia Amoruso is expanding her Girlboss radio podcast.  As part of her Girlboss Media brand, Sophia is putting up just over $1M to take the podcast to the next level.  The podcast is just one nod to her Girlboss life.  


Amoruso wrote a great memoir, appropriately named Girlboss.  She laid out her path to creating a unique fashion brand, and the ups and downs she used to motivate her ascension to success.  Despite common challenges in the fashion and retail world, Sophia has continued to relent.  Leaving the Nasty Gal retail life for a stronger focus on female empowerment, the Girlboss brand now also includes a foundation.  As reported by Retail Dive, the foundation offers "breezy pieces showcasing advice like how to set up your LinkedIn profilehow to get a quick hit of happiness and how to make money in the gig economy". Girlboss Foundation seeks to guide young women in achieving their dreams in a seemingly contradictory "shame-free, lame-free zone."  Read her book--this is so Sophia!

It's always great to hear what women are doing for others.  We are greater when we help each other.

Go Girlbosses!


Monday, August 21, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Fashion Law

Technology One-Ups Counterfeits--

Just when the counterfeit market thought it was gaining, particularly with retail experiencing a stumbling block, technology has stepped in to do what it does best--change the game.  To fight back against fakes in the market, the folks at Entrupy created a scanner to determine the real from the fake.

Obviously you can train a machine to do almost anything these days.  Now, this machine-learning system can scan an item and with up to 98.5% accuracy, determine whether it's the real deal or just another really good copy.  As you know, goods are in the market in 4 different classes.  This device will be able to separate the 1s from the 2s with almost complete certainty.  Because of its advanced technology, it will also be improving its accuracy with every use.  


Entrupy won't be marketed to the individual consumer, but primarily geared toward retailers looking to ensure they are selling genuine products, and not gray market goods--those made in legit factories, but outside contracted terms.  This device will also put gray marketers on the defense, forcing them to find ways to defeat the system.  The goal of the scanner is to ensure trust in what consumers are purchasing.  

"We built Entrupy as a scalable and versatile platform in response to the rapidly growing counterfeiting issue and need for trust when it comes to product transactions." Vidyuth Srinivasan, Entrupy's co-founder told Digital Trends.  

This device will most certainly give the gray market a run for its money.  It may press legislators to act on further protecting designs as well.  


For more on gray market goods, click here.  


Saturday, July 29, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Beauty

Your Best Beauty...Because Ingredients Matter--

Over the last couple years, I have found myself being more and more conscious of the ingredients I not only ingest, but also apply to my skin and hair.  I need to know what's in these bottles.  What does this stuff do?  

Many brands have started forcing the issue of ingredients, even centering their marketing and promotion around them. You've heard them..."Argan Oil-infused... Coconut Oil...Vitamin E extract...".  It goes on.  Certainly there wasn't the same enthusiasm about essential oils and vitamins--even just 5 years ago.  Large brands, like L'Oreal, Unilever, and Proctor & Gamble have latched onto the trend, but independent brands have really been trailblazers.

Independent brands have made it their business--literally--to highlight ingredients and their contributions to the product.  Taking a look at the labels, you see (in order of amount) more ingredients with names you can pronounce and hear regularly.  Not only are the unheard of compounds  less dominant, the oils and vitamins promise more benefits than just preservation.  They get specific.   

As I began to make it more of a priority to buy shampoos, conditioners, shower gels, and other products with healthy ingredients, I also took to some research on what the other components were. The Environmental Working Group has a plethora of information. I started comparing compounds other site to what I saw on bottles.  In addition to highlighting what's in the products, we're starting to see a lot of what has been excluded.  What'd they take out?  Why?  Why was it in there to begin with?  Much of this research led me to learn more about sulfates and parabens, which help emulsify and foam, and serve and preservatives, respectively.  Hmmm...don't I still need foam?  Do I really want this product to last for 5 years?  Do I even need that?

Sulfates are overly drying to the hair, and parabens...well they've been linked to health risks.  The levels have been low,  but enough for them to be widely removed from popular products where they were once mainstays. 


One of the most common (and most safe) compounds you'll see is cetearyl alcohol.  This one is used to emulsify/foam, and has a low hazard rate.  It's similar to stearyl alcohol--both pretty safe, despite the "alcohol" in their names.  On the other end, benzalkonium chloride, a fairly common preservative has been associated with skin irritations and allergies.  The risk here is a bit high, and it is even restricted in some countries.  There are some compounds we need for good reason.  Others, we need to keep away from.  

Many of the most common compounds used, at one time, revolutionized the beauty industry.  They allowed for products to stay in tact over long shipments, keep a long shelf life for inventory availability, and be there whenever consumers needed them--no wait.  

But what independent brands have given us, in addition to a bit of a wait for their heart-to-hand products, is a some self-regulation.  Because there are just 30 substances banned by the FDA for use in beauty products (compared to over 1500 in Europe), we are left to a little trial and error in what works, what harms, and what needs to be celebrated in its removal after 40+ years of use.  Indies are taking charge and using natural ingredients, paired with little to no compounds, carefully curating products often free of preservatives.  If it's carefully curated, just for me (in my heart), there's no need to a long shelf life.  


Hearing which ingredients are in your most needed products and knowing what they do creates an important experience for consumers.  "This will keep my skin soft."  "This will reduce inflammation."  "This will slow aging." That messaging goes a long way, especially when some of those same ingredients can be found in our kitchens and even used for other things.  Clearly coconut oil and apple cider vinegar are staples beyond the kitchen, and solve almost everything known to man.  

Are you watching your labels?



For some of our Ingredient-Infused faves, check out these brands:
TGIN (Thank God It's Natural)

Saturday, June 3, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Empowers

Hello June!

Yes, today is already the 3rd day of June, and 2017 seems to be moving along pretty quickly.  My great-grandmother once told me "after 20, those birthdays start moving really fast".  Boy was she right.  Years are going by rapidly, so taking some time to reflect and refresh is very important.  

As a way to reflect on the year thus far, and prepare for the back half, we're sharing these June Journal Prompts--shared with us by creative curator, Tonisha from T_Happy Place. The purpose is to get your thoughts and ambitions flowing for the rest of what this amazing year will be.  Sorry we're a couple days late, but hey, take today to catch up and really get your brain working.

Reflect with us. 

Happy Writing!
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Biblically the number 6 represents man, the day man was created, and the month of Father’s day is in the month of June.  The direction of creation and man is what lead to this month’s prompts.

1. What are 6 goals you want to complete this month?
2. What is something that happened to you today that made you smile?
3. What is the first memory you have of your dad?
4. If you had to pick up and move right now, where would you go and why?
5. Who is your favorite singer?  Write a line from your favorite song of theirs.
6. What is something that you can work on that will make you better?
7. What is a moment in your life you would do over if you could?  How and Why?
8. What are you thankful for today?
9. Think of someone to say a prayer for.  Write a prayer on their behalf.
10. What was the most important lesson you learned this week?
11. What is your favorite dance song?  Put that song on and dance your way to a clear mind.
12. What is your favorite part of your morning routine?
13. What does having faith mean to you?
14. What was the most inspirational thing you heard/saw today?
15. Who is someone in your life that you need to make more time to spend with them?
16. What was your favorite childhood movie and why?
17. “A determined person is the most feared and the most powerful individual” What does that quote mean to you?
18. Write about the male parental figure in your life.  How did they help shape you into the person you are?
19. What do you remember about your dreams from last night?  How does that make you feel?
20. Think about your day, what are 6 good things that happened to you today?
21. What is something that you want to do in your career that is on your bucket list?
22. If you were to have a son, what would you name him and why?
23. What is a cause that is near to your heart?  How are you supporting it?
24. What is something that brings you peace?
25. Look out your window, what do you see?  What does that inspire you to do?
26. What’s the name of your first boyfriend?  Write about him.
27. What do you admire most about the person you work for?
28. Write a letter to them releasing any hurt that you feel.  
29. Which of your talents can you turn into a side hustle?
30. Think back to the 6 goals you set at the beginning of the month, how many of them did you accomplish?



Wednesday, April 26, 2017

B.A.F.F.L.E.D. Spotlights

Naturally You Book!

A few weeks ago I scrolled past this captivating book cover on Instagram.  I stopped to see what it was and clicked on the link.  What I came upon was Naturally You: A Hair Journal for the Curly, Kinky, & Coily.  I was immediately intrigued.  I scrolled through the website, remarked on "how cool" this was, and immediately purchased 2 books for natural friends.  Once they'd shipped, I got a personal note to make sure I received them and was on my way to enjoying.  Wow.  This is marvelous.  



*Disclaimer.  I am not natural.  My hair is relaxed, however I am a hair health enthusiast, and stop at nothing short of keeping these tresses as happy as possible.  This sentiment is just one piece of what I later learned...

This past Sunday, I got the empowering pleasure of starting my day with Mrs. Layla Bryant, author of Naturally You.  It was not only refreshing to chat with her, but she enlightened me on what it took to put this masterpiece together.  

The Inception:
Of course the first thing I wanted to know was what inspired her to write a book. She told me she's "been natural for about 15 years. It was before it became 'a thing, a revolution--a movement'.  I was getting scalp burns from relaxer.  In all that time, it hadn't been a thing to be natural and healthy. Today, it's a different ballgame to have bloggers and stylists committing to keeping natural and all hair healthy--relaxing less, putting an emphasis on healthy hair."  So true. With the internet being a wealth of any and every kind of information, it's so much easier to work through getting and keeping healthy hair.  We have too much knowledge these days not to. 

Layla said she cut her hair one day--with regular scissors--starting her natural journey.  As she continued contemplating writing this book and how, she realized, "what's out there is mostly how-to books, but there's lots of side conversations about being relaxed v. natural." The side conversations have taken on their own life, as a matter of fact.  She saw this book as a means for continuing those conversations..."What does your texture mean?"  "What if you don't like your curl pattern? The politics, natural hair in the office...I wanted to give people a path to discuss hair.  Give them the questions to make them go beyond the steps of hair care--past everything visible about the hair.  What about women who cover their hair?  With so many things to think about... what if you don't have the 'optimal curl'?  And who decides what that is?  How?"  With so many questions, Layla was well on her way to compiling more than a journal, but a conversation grabber.   

I wanted to know more about how she put together the pieces of Naturally You.  Layla said she started with all those questions (and more) and went from there. "I talked to people about it, and put the discussions I was having down on paper. I broke down the different topics of hair-- hair care, business of hair and products, hair at work... I expect there's a fair amount of people who won't even write in it, but will see it as a coffee table book.  It could be a conversation piece amongst girlfriends."  

Ladies, we all know we've had these discussions.  This book will help us take them to the next level.  

Hair Talk
I was curious as to the group whom surprised her the most in loving the book.  She said it was teenagers!  "They love the look of it, and probably will write in it. It gives them a lot to think about and reflect on.  The book gives them the chance to have these conversations amongst each other.  Everyone else is having the conversation with them--media, videos, Hollywood, etc.  The book will have the conversation with them adults close to them may not."  Layla hopes Naturally You encourages them to consider business, product creation, independent thinking, self-love and more.  She hopes it will open their minds beyond the pressures they see on social media.  

I then asked for her thoughts on what the natural hair movement means beyond hair and products.  She reigned in on a very key point, "For people who study the history of black people and hair, it's in our DNA for hair and hair styles to have certain meanings. It transforms in so many ways to set us apart.  When there's a movement, our hair goes with it--afros, dreadlocks, braids, whatever.  Think about Colin Kaepernick--as he became more of an activist, it seems like his fro got bigger.  Our hair makes our point with us."  That's so real!  

As we continued to chat, I wondered, in all her research how she defined "natural".  She said she always hesitates to define "natural", but terms it more as "natural for me". "Natural is a lot of things to a lot of people. Hearing different debates, some have even said adding color no longer makes the hair natural. It creates the further debates of what natural really means, and how. 'Is natural a spectrum, or an either/or?'  I see it as trying to achieve your healthiest hair without changing the composition." 

With so many discussions going on around hair and beauty today, it was important to know what Layla thought about what her book does for these discussions and hair care in action.  So eloquently put, she noted how today's beauty world really pushes for inclusion.  "In the world today, we are doing our best to embrace everything.  It's all inclusive or nothing. I appreciate all of these blogs and bloggers showing people how to care for their hair and showing them how to love what they have.  I think the hair type discussions are important to help people realize what works for them and what doesn't.  We need to have resources for people with every curl pattern.  We, as a people, span in so many ways-- hair care, body types, skin tones, everything."  

Wait, what about natural?
With natural hair having such a stronghold in our social construct today, there are obviously misconceptions.  Layla shared some of the most common as believing you have to go natural at all and what that experience will be like. "There's a lot of pressure right now on women who are relaxed to go natural. It's like telling people who decide to get locks--something so permanent. I encourage others to use resources to make the decision.  I believe it is a very personal decision.  It's not easy. It really is a journey and takes mental fortitude to get to where you want to go."

"It's easy to think 'going natural, your hair will look like _____.' You never know.  You do have to go through different products to see what works for you.  Manage your expectations.  That's the beauty of our hair.  You can do different things.  It's flexible. You can't have any expectations.  It's an exploratory process.  Go in with an open mind v. seeing others go natural and think it's what you should expect.

This is definitely a sentiment we didn't have on natural hair 20, even just 10, years ago.  The time we're in now is remarkable.  

Not being natural, her words were encouraging. Layla assured, "there's things in the book that apply to everyone, regardless of what state your hair is in. The hair is like an arm almost. It's its own part of you. It reflects who you are, your mood, etc. Many women take their hair through every state you can imagine throughout their life."  It's our privilege, no?

What do people think?
I know how magnificent I think the book is, but I had to ask about the varied feedback she's gotten.  "I've gotten amazing feedback.  I've learned some things in creating a product and marketing.  Everyone loves the cover, but people were tripped up on the word 'journal'.  Some thought it was blank.  After spending a little time with it, people say 'This is awesome', 'This is really cool', 'I hadn't thought about that', 'Ooo, I need to get this for my girl'.

As I suspected, Layla defined the book as "yours".  "What you do with it is what's going to make it awesome.  It's just to get you started."   

After working very hard to finalize the book, just before having a baby, mind you, it was published just over a year ago. In the time since, she's pushed hard to engage as much as possible, learning a lot about marketing and promotions in the process. She even came across a hair show in Texas called "Naturally You", and like all empowered women do, they worked together to promote.   

Next Steps...
So what's next for her Naturally You movement?  Layla attended the Natural Hair Show in Atlanta last weekend, and networked with products gurus and other natural hair enthusiasts.  She plans to "focus is blogs and bloggers, who are doing the job of sharing with people. I believe we've put together a good product and are working to find ways to get it to people to help tell my story that way."  As she continues, she plans to be more directed at youth, and after hearing feedback from teenagers, that's definitely a good move.  

Like others taking part in the everyday Wonder Woman Movement, wearing her cape and crown effortlessly, Layla keeps in mind how her work will reflect to her children.  
"There's a part of life you want to keep for yourself so kids can see you doing other things, and doing things for yourself--more than just a 9-5, and more than just being their mom.  You have to live in a way that inspires them and do things that matter to them. Use the rat race to get to another level of living--appreciate so much more--engaging with people, spending time with yourself. Know there's so much more to life to experience and achieve." 

She mentioned her mom shared a clip of Denzel saying he "was happy he was successful because of his talent, not partying with the right people, or giving in to trends." He just kept plugging away at it and now he's "a 20-year overnight success." There's never a disadvantage to working hard and doing the right thing.  Layla's goal is to sell hundreds of thousands of copies--because hundreds of thousands of women would want a gift like this.  I know a few friends who did.  And a few more who were added to that list by the end of our chat.  

When not wearing her author hat, Layla works as a Project Manager doing software implementation.  She lives in Atlanta with her husband and 3 children.  Wonder Woman Movement. Cape. Crown.  




We ended our Sunday morning chat with talking about how important it is, especially in today's social climate, to love yourself and constantly improve yourself.  With so many things telling you you aren't enough, you must push to keep reminding yourself to do and learn more.  She said she doesn't know that this book will change the world, but it will show our hair is more than just strands.   

I think it will change the world.



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Check Layla and Naturally You out on social media and order your copy now!

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